" To term life as unfair is often the first step to accept defeat in life
Being hopeful is wishful , to believe it requires a endless desire to fight "
This is a real life honest conversation i happened to be in midst of two friends recently -It gave me a different perspective of life altogether once it was done ( I'm revealing their talks and not their names as one of them would kill me if he reads this ,lol, --let the two be as Friend 1 and Friend 2-both of them in mid age crisis --through troubled waters )
Friend 1 -- I'm amazed how life has been taking twist after twist in last couple of years
Friend 2 -- Like --Explain that more ?
Friend 1 -- I have lost what i have earned through a freak robbery , My wife has been diagnosed with a serious ailment ,im going through a horror run in my business,and all my worse fears has happened for real so meticulously as if someone is enacting it (sighs)
Friend 2 -- Events differ but i don't think life is any different for others too in this world (Friend 2 is a profound person admittedly who speaks to the point and keeps it simple)
Friend 1 -- Sometimes i search for a solace that is so non existent
Friend 2 -- That is beauty of life isn't it -- disappointments are like stars in the sky ,countless they maybe but they can't hide the sky --like that the happiness you are due will eventually find you -( has a wry smile )
Friend 1 -- That is a killer line man ( smiles loudly patting the other )
Friend 2 -- My wife used to say --"it isn't necessarily always about setting a boundary to our desires --desires push you to limits you could never see "
Friend 1 -- Same thing happened when my wife was diagnosed with a tough ailment --you know we have a 3 yr old daughter --she said after initial shock--Don't worry i want to see how she looks as 20 yr old so i will fight my best to see it for real "
Friend 2 -- The biggest impacts our parents have on us is known during such times --there is no kid who won't refer them during such times -- somewhere you feel a relevance .
Friend 1 -- Very true --i was not attached to my mom and dad as kids are ,,but i could relate to strength of character to them unknowingly --guess that's what their most important lesson to us we learn as we grow .
Friend 2 -- Nothingness comes when seemingly all our desires have been vanquished by fate --in reality desires are never vanquished --the best example is of you having a desire to wake up the next morning despite anything .
Friend 1 -- (Says Nothing but acknowledges in silence and lets his frd summarise his thoughts )
Friend 2 -- Life in whole takes you to places you never wished --precisely to know why you exist ,what gets you back is your desire to fight no matter what
Friend 1 -- Thanks Man ---Makes me feel lot better -- My wife said on our way back " Fighting is not one of the choices now --its my only choice and i will do bloody good of that for our kid "
Friend 2 -- Nods approvingly pats and says --- My dad used to pep me up as kid saying a cheesy line " Fears kill everything that desires build --Forget about the fears just soldier on"!!!
( And after a few fun quotes about news around globe they went )
I happened to be a mutual friend to both of them ,and though i could not relate too much of their personal stuff since i had hardly known their families --i could not but get a positive vibe about life when they both left the hotel ---i was just thinking about how much life of commoners goes unnoticed in today's hectic world --you search for inspiration in books ,videos but overlook inspiring happenings in life just because it had come from people you knew ,,It felt refreshing that there is a positive side even in desperate times
" The desire to fight is all that counts " -- a message that i treasured safely to use one day !!!
Being hopeful is wishful , to believe it requires a endless desire to fight "
This is a real life honest conversation i happened to be in midst of two friends recently -It gave me a different perspective of life altogether once it was done ( I'm revealing their talks and not their names as one of them would kill me if he reads this ,lol, --let the two be as Friend 1 and Friend 2-both of them in mid age crisis --through troubled waters )
Friend 1 -- I'm amazed how life has been taking twist after twist in last couple of years
Friend 2 -- Like --Explain that more ?
Friend 1 -- I have lost what i have earned through a freak robbery , My wife has been diagnosed with a serious ailment ,im going through a horror run in my business,and all my worse fears has happened for real so meticulously as if someone is enacting it (sighs)
Friend 2 -- Events differ but i don't think life is any different for others too in this world (Friend 2 is a profound person admittedly who speaks to the point and keeps it simple)
Friend 1 -- Sometimes i search for a solace that is so non existent
Friend 2 -- That is beauty of life isn't it -- disappointments are like stars in the sky ,countless they maybe but they can't hide the sky --like that the happiness you are due will eventually find you -( has a wry smile )
Friend 1 -- That is a killer line man ( smiles loudly patting the other )
Friend 2 -- My wife used to say --"it isn't necessarily always about setting a boundary to our desires --desires push you to limits you could never see "
Friend 1 -- Same thing happened when my wife was diagnosed with a tough ailment --you know we have a 3 yr old daughter --she said after initial shock--Don't worry i want to see how she looks as 20 yr old so i will fight my best to see it for real "
Friend 2 -- The biggest impacts our parents have on us is known during such times --there is no kid who won't refer them during such times -- somewhere you feel a relevance .
Friend 1 -- Very true --i was not attached to my mom and dad as kids are ,,but i could relate to strength of character to them unknowingly --guess that's what their most important lesson to us we learn as we grow .
Friend 2 -- Nothingness comes when seemingly all our desires have been vanquished by fate --in reality desires are never vanquished --the best example is of you having a desire to wake up the next morning despite anything .
Friend 1 -- (Says Nothing but acknowledges in silence and lets his frd summarise his thoughts )
Friend 2 -- Life in whole takes you to places you never wished --precisely to know why you exist ,what gets you back is your desire to fight no matter what
Friend 1 -- Thanks Man ---Makes me feel lot better -- My wife said on our way back " Fighting is not one of the choices now --its my only choice and i will do bloody good of that for our kid "
Friend 2 -- Nods approvingly pats and says --- My dad used to pep me up as kid saying a cheesy line " Fears kill everything that desires build --Forget about the fears just soldier on"!!!
( And after a few fun quotes about news around globe they went )
I happened to be a mutual friend to both of them ,and though i could not relate too much of their personal stuff since i had hardly known their families --i could not but get a positive vibe about life when they both left the hotel ---i was just thinking about how much life of commoners goes unnoticed in today's hectic world --you search for inspiration in books ,videos but overlook inspiring happenings in life just because it had come from people you knew ,,It felt refreshing that there is a positive side even in desperate times
" The desire to fight is all that counts " -- a message that i treasured safely to use one day !!!
