Monday, December 31, 2012

Maybe The Best Year For All Of Us ,,,,,Happy New Year !!!

           " What's in store who knows but lets be  game on for the best new year yet in our  lives"
             "   How many things have happened i "Wonder"
                          Endless points to "Ponder" !!
                Its time to have a heart that is happy to "Give"
                                Mistakes to "Forgive" !!
                Its time to smile more often than "Not"
                                Tears a forgotten "Lot" !!
                Its time to play the name of a game called "Happiness"
                         To overcome a opponent called "Sadness"
                Its time to forget what happened because past is "History"
                         Future -a place of happy "Mystery"
                Its time to wish for optimistic Mornings
                         To never end in pessimistic Evenings"
                                              Three near missed accidents--Countless heartbreaks --lonely nights -scary truths -terrible fears intermitted by some sizzling happy moments -sterling motivations -blossoming love - heart warming friendship --and few new beautiful little angels --2012 has had everything --to judge it as good or bad is the last thing i wanna do--All i hope is for wonderful 2013
Keep hoping --Start believing - 2013 maybe the best year we have had --A big Cheers and a even big thumbs up --Welcome 2013 !!!!!


Saturday, December 29, 2012

"Everyone Dies Not Everyone Lives --Ur Life Will Never Be Forgotten -RIP Brave Girl" !!

       "Why is our India called as Mother India"???--I remember asking this to my teacher at a very young age --and ever since i have remembered the reply --

          "For Indians, their motherland represents more than a piece of land. They see India with the love, respect and awe of a real mother. In many ways, their sentiments are not ill-founded."

           I think u must have seen the picture of Mother India in your younger days --I have always had goosebumps while i was being taught of this or even now while i hear about my country  i have felt the pride every single time .But when I saw the picture of the brave girl who was disintegrated by barbaric men I felt hell a lot of sadness in my heart,then the news of more women tortured in various part of India felt terrible by every passing  minute.
            The truth is if we all consider our country as our mother --then we are all her sons and daughters ---On seeing the endless news of girls from infants to teens tortured --abused and in some cases murdered it leaves a bad feeling that things are going from bad to worse ,
                          " As another wonderful innocent life is cruelly nipped at bud ---a life so cruelly ended at 23 --in the early hours of today --Mother India keeps losing its daughters --- To say everything will be alright in few days is like cheating ourselves --because unless there is sumthing done to stop such actions --unless we believe that we have a active role in trying to stop this sort of incidents --unless there is stronger law to make such hearltess men think twice --things wont change --tommorow it might be someone from people u know,i know  --we need not be superman all we need is to be true to our heart and believe we have a role in reforming this situation .
                            " When the girl passed away another daughter of Mother India has been disintegrated --another flower nipped in bud --it feels like a  book having cruelly its pages torn before unravelling its beauty to the world -- I dont know why but i got the feeling "My Mother India is weeping helplessly "daughter after daughter --loss after loss --yet nothing has been done and probably nothing will be done - Is it not our duty to make this place --this wonderful country a safer place for women of this generation and future generations?
To that wonderful sister of mines who passed away today ;
                                        Rest In Peace Sister --- Today this whole Nation mourns ur wonderful  journey of yours cut short by cruel human beings  --Your bravery will be talked for yrs ---Your death has awaken so many of us --This is blackest day i have known in my life for sumone i never knew --i feel my responsibility increased --for the first time i had tears for sumone i never knew ---Your life will not be forgotten --Maybe today this country is not secured for women --its like they r ready prey for remorseless men--but there is no denying the fact that time will change this fact  --maybe just maybe your life will be the one that revolutionised a sagging country which has slowly watched helplessly at atrocious crimes --maybe its time this country awoke to this increasing number of heartless activities --You are safe at where you are now -- there is noone to torture you--there is noone to helplessly question you even after you were torn to pieces(she had given statements twice to magistrate --TWICE despite her condition)--For all your suffering and heartache --your soul deserves to rest in peace --even if u have lived there is no gurantee you might have seen anything different in this endless patient country of mines --it sucks to say so but that is the truth .
                                  All i wish is such incidents never to occur --I wish the future generations is not shown our "Mother India "--and explained as the country which was insecured for women --as a proud Indian --As a son of this wonderful nation --i wish never to be there to  see or hear the same  one  day --it appears though the day is fast approaching :( --Maybe its time my country awoke --because if at all there was a need to stand up against dangerous crimes  it is right now ---after all if a girl cant go out fearlessly in our country what's the use in priding ourselves that we got freedom when women are confined helplessly to cruel activities.I have no words to describe the pain my heart feels now .I hope things change and i feel my hope is seen as  a must to save this country's pride
          "RIP Brave girl --Everyone dies --not everyone lives --ur life will never be forgotten "


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

வலிக்கிறது மனம் வழிகிறது கண்ணீர் !!!!

2 வயது நிரம்பாத பச்சிளம் குழந்தையை சிதைத்து நிகழ்வை படித்து மனம் ஆறாமல் !!!

உனக்கு உயிர் கொடுத்தவள் ஒரு பெண் தான்

உனக்கு அன்பையும் பண்பையும் சொல்லி கொடுத்தவளும் அவளே

உனக்கு அன்பை பரிமாற ஆண்டவன் கொடுக்கும் சொந்தங்கள் பல பெண் வர்க்கமே

உனக்கு படிப்பு சொல்லி கொடுத்த ஆசிரியை பெண் வர்க்கமே

உனக்கு பிறப்பின் அர்த்தத்தையும் உணர்த்துபவளும் ஒரு பெண்ணே

மனதையும் சரி உன் ஸ்பரிச தீண்டுதலும் சரி ஒரு பெண்ணிடமே இருக்க வேண்டும்

மனம் நாடி எங்கு சென்றாலும் அதை தொடர்ந்து நாமும் செல்லகூடாது என

விளக்கவே உனக்கு ஆறு அறிவும் ,மனசாட்சிஉடனும் நீ படைக்கபட்டாய்

மனிதர் நீ மாந்தர் எப்போது ஆனாய் -2 வயது குழந்தையை சிதைத்து இன்பம் காணும் நீ

உன்னை ஈன்று எடுத்தவள் அதே பெண்ண என்பதை நீ எப்படி மறந்தாய்
செய்தி படித்த மனம் வலிக்கிறது கண்ணீர் வடிகிறது

பெண்இனமே மன்னித்து விடு -இதுபோல் அட்டுழியங்கள் முடிவு பெரும் காலம் வெகு தொலைவில் இல்லை !!!!


Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Respect Women !!!

"A Woman is the epitome of every emotion u have seen and yet to see
  Right from the beginning she learns to hide her pain
  Hides her secrets --buries her wishes --confides her joy in silence
  Be it as a caring mother ,a loving wife ,a naughty sister ,a adorable daughter,a supportive frd
  She Forgets her requisites and adapts to social needs
  She Suffers lot why give her more !!!
  Show me a man who never had a woman in his life for his beginning was
  Always from a woman --To hurt any woman is like disgracing your Mother
  If you are prepared to do something --the least you can do is respect them !!
                                 It has to be one of the blackest days in the history of our Nation ---When Men became animals ---when a innocent girl was torn by heartless men who showed by their barbarious activities that they are not fit enuf to be even called as human beings --Could not read the story more than once --For once i felt ashamed being in the same gender as these heartless people were from --To injure a unarmed girl so badly --to sexually assault her like animals --what sort of human being would do that --Disgraceful and disgusting act that questions the very existence of humanity in this world -Even worse had followed the incident -One hour - the girl lying in the road with noone to take notice is the most pathetic stage we are moving into --We are so concerned about the good of our own self --we are slowly forgetting the importance of a life --the care we need to show to our fellow being who is suffering .

                                  It feels so hard to watch the convicts moving around without being punished immediately -- for the heart wishes for capital punishment immediately as justice --but we live in a place where a terrorist who killed so many lives moved around courts and lived for more than 4 years despite having every evidence of his inhuman crime --so it is hard to expect any drastic action for any crime --the best thing we can do is hope we never live to hear something so sad like this in our lives --but that is not a good enuf reason to stand still and watch --yes we are not shakthimans or superheroes but we can do our basics right -Some things we can do like 
                         **** We can teach our kids how to respect a woman -
                         **** Try to understand and implement the fact that  the role of woman is equally important as a male in this society
                         **** Make sure Rapists have capital punishment immediately if proved guilty
                         **** Most importantly allow woman to choose their path and lives if possible
(I still live in a society where a girl choosing a job or guy seems as the  worst disgrace imaginable to a family)
                               I write this with utter humiliation and heartfelt sadness

      "If you ought to torture a fellow human being without any remorse

        Then you are not fit enough to be called a human being

         Neither are you just enough to live in this world --But I

         Live in a country which just has too much patience even for the  worst offenders

         Wake up for once country these are our fellow human beings disintegrated!!!

             I do sincerly hope that the guilty are punished in such a way this sort of crime never happens --The question again is Will We See A Bold Step Being Taken ?
Feel Like Hanging my head as would  thousands  of us in Shame !!!My Sincere wishes to that innocent girl to recover from all this pain soon,May God help her in recovering soon and have a happy life ahead .

Monday, December 17, 2012

Is This Right ????

**** It felt really disheartening from a individual point of view to see this advertisement with regard to sad story in a Leading English Newspaper ---Im neither a critic nor a supporter of a particular political party--im just one among million men --Just a Common man****
My sincere questions regarding this advertisment in the front page of Leading English newspaper on 16.12.2012

* Was there any absolute need to advertise such a sensitive incident where the trauma of the family can never be understood by outsiders ---Is it not important to leave them their space after all that had transpired ?

* Is this any sort of awareness that was being created?If So what sort of awareness was the daily trying to create (It seemed the way they had specifed about all mobile users accessibility it does seem it was nowhere near anything as such )

* The purpose of this advertisement doesnt seem to comply doing anything to the incident that occured --Why not a article briefing about how ppl could handle this situation ?

* Why was not any scathing attack on the radio station ppl whose careless fun ended a innocent life( it was revealed that the person was not at all exposed to any such media in her whole life )-Is it wrong to pinpoint what could have been better ?

* Is there no value for life ? Does everything need to be in business mind?Is this the maximum media can show concern to departed soul in a sensitive incident ?

* If it was done on a sincere note why could not it be announced as it was of free of cost message,or something like that  --all this  conveys is only a silly marketing purpose that at any cost could have been avoided .
On A Similar note --


----What is the guarantee that the icident would not be similarly advertised- adveritsing for application for people to download and "watch exclusive videos of people grieving in that incident too???"--Seriously are we   wantedly ignorant  that much to download a application to participate in the grievings of our fellow being which seems absurd for all that we are worth for - Hell No --"We wish to be part of grievances from our soul and heart -Period !!!

This is not a global sporting incident neither a heroic battle won that needs a download application to be viewed over and over again --And despite every difference we have for each other one thing that unites us -is our "Solidity Of Mankind-Our Love for Humanity is same" --even one minute of silence in our hearts is appreciable enough --because that is done in the truest way possible --our sincere wishes are all the grieved family needs --I just remember the "Twin Tower "incident --the "Mumbai Terror "incident --we all offered our prayers in our little ways --THAT IS THE BEST WE COULD GIVE TO SOULS WE NEVER KNEW --AND CERTAINLY NEVER TO DOWNLOAD A APPLICATION  TO PARTICIPATE IN A GRIEVANCE .

I still feel so bad seeing that --maybe there should be restriction for marketing --not everything needs marketing --and cerainly not everything needs needless advertisment -and that too on the front page --All i hope is better sense prevails in sensitive iissues .

(Everything said has been said entirely on my humble perspective -not meant to hurt anyone if so it is regretted )

Friday, December 14, 2012

FIRST SIGNS ,,,,,,,!!!!

    "Signs are the best indication of where u r headed ,,,,,,,"
   The first signs of a worried father --is  when he asks us "Can you?"--for the first time instead of his usual "You Can"!!!

   The first signs of a best friend  --- is when among hundred friends he/she listens to your silence

    The first signs of true love      ---  is when someone is so inquisite and excited  abt wanting to see your childhood pictures

   The first signs of maturity       ---   is when you accept ur first loss -- acknowledged by a smile masking flowing tears.

   The first signs of  loneliness    ---   is when you feel your silence as your best companion

   The first signs of  soulmate      ---   is when someone gives u support no matter what --gives u hope against hope --in my case --unseen too but magical nevertheless

   The first signs of satisfaction   ---   is when your mother touches your head and just smiles in acknowledgement of something she wished that was accomplished by you.

   The first signs  of  friends for life --is when u find sumone trustworthy enough  to say intimate truths and patient enough to accept our silly jokes !!!

   The First Signs of motivation  --   is when u decide to prove people who keep saying "You cant" --again and again ---wrong.

   The First Signs of Frustration  ---  is when you fight with people you love most not realising it is not the right thing to do

   The First Sign of  Sucess         ---  is when repeated failures dont scare you anymore

  The First signs of  Desperation ---  is when you start listening to meaningless advices from strangers

  The First Signs of Happiness    ---  is when tears roll out uncalled upon

  The First Signs of Regret          ---  is when u accept u were wrong on sumthing u did hoping it was right .
                                                       Human life is a mixture of everything --as they say a box of chocolates--but you definitely know where you are heading if you folllow the signs of nature --there is nothing in this world as mysterical as life itself!!!


Saturday, December 8, 2012

"There Is A Dawn To Be Seen Despite Any Pain"

         *****   "Tears try to rush out --heart pleads for the same -the mind remembers one great incident by one great soul" *****
                             There are days in ur life when u wish the day never dawned or u had skipped that day ---Some days u feel life is the most cruel villain in this world --Speechless by couple of rude incidents --i gazed up the stars standing motionless -"I have had days when i have had pains as do millions of us ---but there are ridiculous days like these when it feels as if the pains has escalated beyond the skies --the exact time u wanna say "Gosh it is unbearable pain "-How do i handle this --My first tear tried to escape from my eyes --I have no shoulder to cry --no soulmate to behold me --i felt as though im carryin another me ---it felt that heavy ---and as i was about to burst out loud i remembered one incident --one magical incident which made me think there is no unbearable pain in this world
The Incident which showed what it means to never give up ---
                             One cold November morning ,2002--a wonderful soul suffering from endless physical pains --pains which no painkiller could kill --the tears of that excess pain --countless injections piercing that tender body --drips runnings all along --with no energy in the body --voice breaking up --with a young innocent son who was just 20 then knowing nothing about this cruel world --who knew nothing about the concealed pain of that wonderful soul - a son who innocently believed soon that great lady will walk him to his house hugging him --that great lady knowing it was her last few days even with that real unbearable pain which the doctors later confirmed as really no painkiller could kill --woke up a many nights to help that son sleep peacefully by sayin "Im fine"every hour to a slightly scared son --a great lady who concealed that unbearable pain cruelly inflicted by fate to ask that son her usual questions "Had Food Son","Have a blanket and sleep "--that son known to have a allergy to hospitals was comforted by that great mother despite her  approaching inevitable cruel end and unbearable pain -- she made a promise  to her son despite everything that fate offered to her  "Listen --I know u r scared --Just remember this mom will do everything she could do to walk with u back to our house -I Promise --saying she held his hand and said  "Sleep I Will watch u till u sleep "--The son woke up in the morning her mom watching him one whole night with many painkillers failing to do the job --eyes swollen of tears of pain--Her tired body was aching to bits but not for one minute she showed that pain --nothing stopped her from showing her endless love --nothing stopped her willpower to withstand a whole night of pain to see her son sleep in comfort .

                                  She fell unconsious the next day and never woke up to see the world -she never walked back with her son to their house -fate had won -death hung its head in shame for claiming such a wonderful soul so early --but the son never felt the real magnamity of her pain till she was gone --the truth was later revealed how much she had concealed those unbearable pain with sheer willpower and a neversaydie attitude to life ,For her

                         "There was  always a dawn that no pain will prevent her from seeing "

                                  I want this night to end in a hurry --this moment to be erased in a jiffy --the truth i heard to be forgotten as if i never heard ---painful alright --but to categorise that "Unbearable"--felt impossible -once i remembered that great soul's act of courage --my second tear went back never to come back again ---Maybe her point was not only to show her willpower it might have been to instill belief in her son that
                        "There is a dawn to be seen despite any pain "

  With Your Evergreen Memories Mom --This life of mines will roll on despite anything       
 Period !!!!