" Imagine a life without the mothers,sisters ,daughters ,better halves ,grandmas ,best friends in girls, female teachers - you just wonder ---"What is life ?''-they just dont make our lives beautiful --they make us understand the value of life --WOMEN symbolise the purpose of life "
( Dedicated to all the wonderful woman in my life )
A look at the roles of woman in our lives reiterating there endless sacrifices
As a Mother ,
Every new born's first memory would be the warmth of that beautiful lady called "Mother "---and what a beautiful lady she is to every son/daughter in the world --she opens your eyes into the world of love --she teaches you the beautiful things you need to know in life and lets you the things you should stay away for life -- Every little step to your next stage of life happens in the watchful eyes of a mother ---you understand there are things that are right and there are things that are wrong in this world through her eyes and words ---that is where life begins ---that is where you begin to understand your destiny --that is where you begin to learn how wonderful a mother is .
As a sister ,
The wonderful thing of having a sister is that you feel you always have someone to share ,to play ,to smile ---to watch the little girl who played with you all through your childhood grow in front of your eyes is a marvellous experience --then one day she will leave you all over to move into a new world yet the love you shared as a kid is the one lovely bond that holds you both together for life --A sister is a mixture of your wonderful moments and tearful moments because she stays with you no matter of what --- a bond that starts as twinkling playful kids never ends for a life ---ever wondered why --ask any sister her reply would be ---Why do i need a reason to love my brother --always ---As a brother i know the real meaning of those lines .
As a frd ,a well wisher ,
Probably the hardest thing for a girl to stand by a guy for a long time without relationship because although the purity of frdship may stand the test of time ---its impossible to be same after marriage ---and i consider myself very lucky because my best friend in girls ,married ,still finds time to ask about my well being --its harder for a girl to do that after marriage --but even then she tries to stick to her responsibility as a true friend ,well wisher ,,its wonderfully unique because it requires a lovely tender heart to stick by without any bond for lifetime ---only a girl can do that -being true to her role till her last
Better Halves /Wife /Girlfrd;
It took me 33 years to find me the girl i was destined ,a long wait yet it was worth the wait in gold--i had a wonderful family --i had wonderful frds --i had the luck of doing what i love as my profession ---but all through the one thing that felt not right was the word "I"---when it became "WE" --it felt different but right ---probably every guy would admit that he feels complete the moment a girl decides to marry him ---that beautiful moment was when i realised how big a thing it is for a girl to say that --- to leave the family she grew up --to leave the surroundings she was so familiar --to leave the place she is most comfortable with --to leave her childhood friends --to leave everything she grew up with ----to a new world ---is a big thing --all she has is "trust "and "belief"--imagine yourself being in a frd place for a day or two --u will feel uneasy more than a day -- but for a girl to do that ready to change her life for you ---is simply monumental---something you understand the more she stays with you---she makes you feel like a complete person.
But what we give them ,,,,,,,
These wonderful human beings are not respected enough in our society --you can see increased amount of old age homes ---you can see parents hesistant knowing it is a girl baby --you can see them fearing to walk around alone even in broad daylight --for the fear of being hurt for being a woman ---the increased amount of rapes and abuses all around India are making them as prey to swooping vultures ---they are the very reason for our existence --they create lives in this world ---they alone ---without them there is no world ---as a youngster i grew up admiring my mom ,,respecting my teachers---loving my sister--there is not one person in this world who could say they don't know the value of a woman ---yet they are being tortured without remorse ,,thrown acid in anger ,,killed in rage after raping her ---Women who are like our sisters /mother/daughters are being tortured more and more by seemingly remorseless devils --i had this horrendous feeling when i read about the perspective of a accused bus driver in Nirbhaya Case --speaking absolute bull shit ---yet all we could is watch , This wonderful angels deserve every bit of respect we could give because they are ready to sacrifice everything for your good yet all they get is nothing but endless trouble .
Personally I am what i am because of all the wonderful women in my life ---right from my wonderful mom ---my teachers ,,my sisters ,,my best frds in girls,,and my wonderful better half --they are the real reasons for whatever im today --they are reasons for your happiness --the least you can do is respect them --celebrate them --every one of them have one thing in common ---"A beautiful heart "