Saturday, January 26, 2013

Respect Society But Dont Let It Rule Over You At Any Cost !!

  " Society wants me to swim in sand---They cheer in hope of my unseen tears
      I have a heart --let it take me  wherever it wants -Period "
                                                                --- A Writer who this world never knew but i did !!!!

                                           What's with this society ?--i thought to myself --how does this play such a huge role in shaping  up a youngster's life particularly --in most cases our wishes are confined to ourselves just because we feel affected by this monster called "Society"---Once u cross 15 --automatically you are made to succumb to a unknown external pressure called "society"--Picture this a dad wants a son to follow his footsteps --the moment the son thinks out of box and wants to become someone he wishes --even his father would be ready to accept his wishes but will not be able to with this monster called society stepping the pressure up --"How will i be able to face up to society if my son doesnt follow my footsteps "--will be the first and foremost question --In most cases its not a case of a dad or family being arrogant to ask us to follow what they want rather it is a question of what this society wants ,Atrocious it may seem but true it is .
                                            To a certain level it is acceptable if u live by society --because do accept that it is not right to live a carefree life just because u beleive u have freedom to live life you want ---but that is a responsibility most of us know as we grow up ,,where was the need to budge for society beyond that is my question?Respect the society but dont let it rule over you--A doctor's kid is expected to be a doctor ,,a business man kid is expected to be the apparent heir ,,a teacher's kid is expected to be in teaching profession ---and i have been brought up by wonderful parents who put less pressure on me when i was young but i knew what they wanted --and i became one --but it is argumentative whether that is what my primary passion was --Somewhere this society ruins thousands of our wishes just because we give too much importance to the untold facts and unknown rules -- I remember when i was growing up i felt there were too many eagle eyes even on my dressing  --that i forgot that i could have been less worried but felt pressurised always unknowingly -and i knew then i was not the only one.
                                           The moment someone in your family comes up with a love story of his/her own then it is like the whole society is full of ears and eyes towards you --a target for humilation is found for them --a sitting duck to be targeted --and before the actual facts are set to be brought to limelight --there are 1000 theories already roaming around without facts or truths --thereby making the lives of  people and families involved go through hell --and all this done without a iota of care or remorse --the sole end result is absolute wreckage --and this has been the story for years and years --nothing has been done although there has been sparks of people starting to stand against such acts --but lot less than what is required for reformation .The magnamity of a scar the society leaves on people who for no fault of theirs for the sake of just loving is ruined to such a level that they could hardly understand the fault they made which in many cases is none .
                                           From Dressing --To Education-- To Profession -To love -- To Life Overall the journey has to be determined by you and very few people who matter to you --but what happens is society decides everything --to be even more specific --it destroys the real you --Part of reasons why there are so many sexual crimes occuring is poor awareness of real facts --just because trying to know them will be a shame in the eye of "society",Maybe im wrong but im sure im not way out of the target --I do have few friends who have showed its not impossible to live life as they wish--not caring for the society--by that i mean respecting the principles but not falling a prey to the untold rules --but still feel majority of us or been ruled by what society wants and not what we want .,love life ,dreams -nothing is left to be in our way --the biggest constraint is,always and forever will be society .
                                           I know nothing will change anything --but events ,happenings just frustrates me no ends -all i can do is just hope and live like a quote that same wonderful person said once
                " You must have courage to live a life by what your heart wishes
                   Otherwise you will sink in this ocean called society with no trace of u in life or after
                                        My life - Only My Way --Always "!!

                                                  -- The person lived in the same way for the time she lived -she is no more -society never changes  --i just hope it does before my time runs out  -Maybe the best motto might be ---Our life Our way --Always --Period !!!!


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    1. Very true Richa, feel very frustrated , but as usual nothin is gona change , our society will go on ruinin lives :(