Friday, August 30, 2013

"Parents Are Incomparable "

"   Parents are your living dictionary to everything you want to know in life 
    The least you could do is respect them --the most you could do is love them endlessly 
     Life's first admiration ,inspiration ,motivation, begins with our parents
     Mine was no different but it simply went on to become awe inspiring 
     Beginning life with two wonderful humble human beings made life lot easier 
     Dedicated to my great parents on their 36th Wedding anniversary."
                                                      Nothing is forever in this life but the time growing up as a kid --all those days when your parents cuts brown covers for your books for new academic year ,,the beautiful time when they taught you to ride a cycle ,,the times they played with you so that you don't feel lonely ,,the times when they used to stand at your school gate with your favourite dish and that effervescent smile--the times they took you to barber shop and standing outside admiring you--the times they took you to tourist spots--plenty and plenty --simply magical unmatchable times --times which only our parents could give and no one else could replicate that  happiness they gave when we were growing up.   
                                                             What's right ,what's wrong , ,learning the art of respecting ,helping you figure out the unique ability u might possess unknowingly --supporting you to the hilt during troubled times --holding you together from breaking down at your lowest points in life --somewhere the shades of our parents in all these moments  will keep hovering over you ,just to remind in case you feel lost --they  will become shining beacons to the path of your unknown destination --and all these are just not just extreme optimistic ,philosophical statements --im now into my early 30 's --and i can literally remember the number of times i was prevented from becoming a abject failure in my life ---there were times when i was surrounded by nothing but complete darkness --every single time it would be the incomparable guarding angel of my life --My Mom who would have had picked me up even in that darkness ---and guided by the greatest  iron willed man i have ever known in my life - "My Dad "--Now i do know how impossible it must have been to resurrect a derailing life--probably every single mom and dad in this world would have done it at some point to their son /daughter .
                                                    The more i see married people  these days  ,the more i realise i would probably never see a better understanding couple than  my mom and dad ---and it was not just because they are very special people in my life im saying this --Despite having a age difference of nearly 13 years they always had special understanding ---During my school days my parents used to accompany me and my brother to school every single day --i remember one of my most  respected teacher Rasheed Sir --who is now no more --used to remark that even if at  100 mtrs apart --your parents would speak same words about any topic ---i never understood that deeply until my mom passed away ---a part of my dad had gone with mom --he still is a bloody strong willed man but that part of his went away with the queen of his heart ---Despite being very very close to hell a lot of people in life i never have decoded that "understanding"part --and everytime i fail - i remember Rasheed's Sir' s words of them ,The most paramount word in any relationship/frdship is always "Understanding ".
                                                         Funnily i have sometimes forgotten even my birthday  but never missed remembering my great parent's wedding anniversary ---as a kid i used to get new shirts ,toys on their day ---Never remember even once my mom in all 20 years she was with us asking something for her on such days ---Somewhere i remember reading

              " A mother knows the feelings of a child the moment his/her heart starts beating "

                                                        18 years of education and every single day with same dedication --same love --same care --and lots of lots of hardwork --thats what my dad was--and probably you could fix that same line for almost every dad in this world --they just don't know to stop loving
                              " Every kid's first inspiration is always their dad "
                                                       I have no idea what i will be in 20 years maybe i wont exist then --but till the  time i live my love ,admiration ,inspiration will never change even a iota to the greatest couple of human beings that i was so lucky to have as parents --To be called their son was/is /will always be the biggest priveleage of my life --i ask no more because i pride upon that more than anything else in my life ,Happy Anniversary to you lovely couple --Love u both loads 
I could remember just one line 

                          "Parents ask you nothing but give you everything they can  "

Cheers  !!!

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