http://www.firstpost.com/india/tn-shame-acid-attack-victim-vinothini-dies-in-hospital-622766.html
Another shameful act in the name of unreturned love by a barbaric human being ended a young girl's life --Vinothini all of 23 years with lot of untold dreams was thrown acid by a stalker who had been troubling her to accept his supposedly "true love"--when eventually knowing his love was not reciprocated --he turned himself into a remorseless human being --disfiguring her face in a barbaric act --Worse was he never felt any remorse even after being arrested for this heinous act --the girl suffered a massive heart attack after being in treatment and succumbed unfortunately --the girl has gone --the guy behind the bars --I doubt whether the guy ever knew the meaning of the wonderful word love --Otherwise he would not have tried to force his wish to be same of that innocent's girls .
Sufferings for a girl in this society seem to be growing endless --the other day one of my good friends email id was hacked -a pretty much strong will powered girl herself working in a respected concern ,seemed very tensed about the happenings --so much so she deleted her social networking sites anticipating more such acts by sumone who had started to indulge in some painfully poor acts like hacking -In reality Stalking has become a untold rule for denied love or expression for meaningless excess love .
There are calls for strict rules --call for stricter punishment for harassment --frankly speaking can anyone guess such heinous and indecent crimes by people --Not everyone is born bad or as a criminal .
" The inevitability of accepting a impending defeat is what makes a person so vulnerable --is what makes him do heinous crimes --the best solution lies with that person --he is the only one who can stop such acts " To categorise strict laws --strict punishments is all for expectation of something bad or punishing a act that was bad --but the moment when someone is vulnerable is something noone can guess ---That moment if we are able to sustain that urge to hit back against a wrong gone wish is the best way to stop such acts ,that is something that has to be taught from young age , sadly we are always been away from discussing the dangers of sexual abusing ,stalking , from our young age --restriction of uttering even such words leave alone discussin is what makes people unaware of their strength in trying to stop that moment of urge --that moment of madness,Sadly that hasnt been the case at all ,,Being educated doesnt guarantee u to be aware enought to fight ur weakest moment .But educated enough in right sense could .
The Delhi barbaric act killing a young women ,,here a acid attack killing a young aspiring girl ,,a 2 year old girl sexually abused by a guy,,a airhostess who commits suicide six months before for harrasment --her mother killed herself recently not able to accept more torture --A strong girls email id hacked ,,stalking becomin more and more an righteous act to satisfy that unknown vulnerability --where is this all gonna end--strict rules ,,stricter punishments are a case of after thought or assumption of belief but the solution has to be with us people --If a girl doesnt feel secured enough to walk freely ,talk freely ,live a life in her own independant terms --then there is not one good enough reason to believe that as a country we are moving forward.
" Early man hunted animals for their living -- Men of today hunt women for their urge
And they say mankind has come a long way ,,,,,,,!!!
With Lot of pain,,,,waiting for a better tomm
C ya Soon .
Since i have no experience on Valentines day--this is my wish (No serious blog today ,,kindly adjust intended only for fun :P)
Self explantory --Next updation soon after Feb 14th ,,,,:P:P
Happy Valentines Day in advance :)
" Forgiveness is a option ,, Importantly a option that decides whether you are a egoist or not "
Recently a sucessful business man in his early 40's --a elder brother to a friend i knew lost his father --Due to lot of misunderstandings and difference of opinion he had not spoken to his father for close to 15 years --"I asked him to forgive me in his grave "saying this he broke down badly --i could see how much he loved his father as every one of us do --I know how exactly it feels to lose one of your parents --after all i lost my wonderful mother when i was just 20-I had few questions in my mind later when i rewinded the incident - what stopped such a loving son to speak to his dad when he was alive ---He had time to ask forgiveness certainly --There could not be a greater reason which could have stopped him from giving peace to himself and his father for eternity --But it did not and it certainly was not the first time i felt something like that in life ,Maybe you are too helpless to realise the magnamity of the situation
Silence is not a solution to gripping misunderstandings --Why should we carry a pain for lifetime when there is a chance to bury that for lifetime by merely asking forgiveness or giving forgiveness---A simple solution to kill a growing pain in the beginning itself--Whatever the reason maybe --however valid it maybe --no matter how much hurt it brought u--it simply is not a good enough reason to carry something unnecessarily for a whole life -we have enough reasons to fight for life already dont we ,,lolz.
"That you can love completely is ample proof u can never hate anyone "
---I have read that somewhere --In a way it sums up what it is ---No human being is devoid of love --and whats amazing is in most cases that beautiful feeling which began a relationship --which strengthened the mutual trust on each other --be it between a brother -sister --between siblings --in family or in any relation is completely lost when there is confusion at a precise moment whether to forgive or ask forgiveness --the demon in us wakes up and makes us do things we would never do if we remember that beautiful feeling for jsut one moment --A feeling called "Love".
Love is something that exist in every relation in this world .
"Maybe it is true we love carefully than completely "
I feel excruciating pain everytime i hear someone say like what my frd did regarding his father --i have never been the perfect guy --i have been through all those situations countless times --it took me long time to realise the pain of that word ---i remember standing every single day before my mothers picture and asking for forgiveness for not being the son she visioned --and to think i never did that when she was alive is enough testimony to realise the importance of the word --i try as much as i can to give ultimate respect to this word with people whom i love -to make a relationship possible --it takes hell a lot of pain and ultimate respect to a realtionship comes when u r prepared --prepared to kill ur ego to make the relationship work --a chance to hold on to something which made u happy-- a oppurtunity to create more unforgettable memories --maybe one more reason to wake up the next day with hope --who knows ?--Refusing to respect the word will invisbily hurt your better tommorow.
" Forgiveness is a opportunity to get a smile and give a smile "
(Believe me it is no joy to ask forgiveness seeing someones picture or in sumones grave --if u get a opportunity to forgive or ask forgiveness --JUST DO IT WITHOUT A BLINK OF EYE -ITS UR LIFE --ITS UR BEST OPPORTUNITY TO BE AT PEACE :):))
" Society wants me to swim in sand---They cheer in hope of my unseen tears
I have a heart --let it take me wherever it wants -Period "
--- A Writer who this world never knew but i did !!!!
What's with this society ?--i thought to myself --how does this play such a huge role in shaping up a youngster's life particularly --in most cases our wishes are confined to ourselves just because we feel affected by this monster called "Society"---Once u cross 15 --automatically you are made to succumb to a unknown external pressure called "society"--Picture this a dad wants a son to follow his footsteps --the moment the son thinks out of box and wants to become someone he wishes --even his father would be ready to accept his wishes but will not be able to with this monster called society stepping the pressure up --"How will i be able to face up to society if my son doesnt follow my footsteps "--will be the first and foremost question --In most cases its not a case of a dad or family being arrogant to ask us to follow what they want rather it is a question of what this society wants ,Atrocious it may seem but true it is .
To a certain level it is acceptable if u live by society --because do accept that it is not right to live a carefree life just because u beleive u have freedom to live life you want ---but that is a responsibility most of us know as we grow up ,,where was the need to budge for society beyond that is my question?Respect the society but dont let it rule over you--A doctor's kid is expected to be a doctor ,,a business man kid is expected to be the apparent heir ,,a teacher's kid is expected to be in teaching profession ---and i have been brought up by wonderful parents who put less pressure on me when i was young but i knew what they wanted --and i became one --but it is argumentative whether that is what my primary passion was --Somewhere this society ruins thousands of our wishes just because we give too much importance to the untold facts and unknown rules -- I remember when i was growing up i felt there were too many eagle eyes even on my dressing --that i forgot that i could have been less worried but felt pressurised always unknowingly -and i knew then i was not the only one.
The moment someone in your family comes up with a love story of his/her own then it is like the whole society is full of ears and eyes towards you --a target for humilation is found for them --a sitting duck to be targeted --and before the actual facts are set to be brought to limelight --there are 1000 theories already roaming around without facts or truths --thereby making the lives of people and families involved go through hell --and all this done without a iota of care or remorse --the sole end result is absolute wreckage --and this has been the story for years and years --nothing has been done although there has been sparks of people starting to stand against such acts --but lot less than what is required for reformation .The magnamity of a scar the society leaves on people who for no fault of theirs for the sake of just loving is ruined to such a level that they could hardly understand the fault they made which in many cases is none .
From Dressing --To Education-- To Profession -To love -- To Life Overall the journey has to be determined by you and very few people who matter to you --but what happens is society decides everything --to be even more specific --it destroys the real you --Part of reasons why there are so many sexual crimes occuring is poor awareness of real facts --just because trying to know them will be a shame in the eye of "society",Maybe im wrong but im sure im not way out of the target --I do have few friends who have showed its not impossible to live life as they wish--not caring for the society--by that i mean respecting the principles but not falling a prey to the untold rules --but still feel majority of us or been ruled by what society wants and not what we want .,love life ,dreams -nothing is left to be in our way --the biggest constraint is,always and forever will be society .
I know nothing will change anything --but events ,happenings just frustrates me no ends -all i can do is just hope and live like a quote that same wonderful person said once
" You must have courage to live a life by what your heart wishes
Otherwise you will sink in this ocean called society with no trace of u in life or after
My life - Only My Way --Always "!!
-- The person lived in the same way for the time she lived -she is no more -society never changes --i just hope it does before my time runs out -Maybe the best motto might be ---Our life Our way --Always --Period !!!!
"Missing someone shows u loved and have been loved truly"
" I Miss U Lot "--Seeing a picture with wordings "Vaibhav " of a friend --my mouth uttered ---this friend the most important friend who made me believe --"Nothing is unacceptable if u learn to accept happenings and inevitable changes "
Turn Back ur life --there will every such instance where u would keep missing sumeone --for a life journey might seem short but the path always seems long and along the way from the beginning to the end there is only one guaranteed passenger -"U"
"The first time i missed sumone was when one of my closest school frds moved to another school after my tenth standard --i cried a whole night unable to digest the truth --it took long time then to realise this is way life works --then slowly it became a habit losing people to various reasons and unable to adapt to the feeling of missing them ,,a poor college life personally complicated issues --i could never get along with the feeling of adapting to missing close people ---then came the biggest shock
Just like that in a flash mom left ---the whole word of "Missing"took a devilish turn --it seemed i coulfd have been consumed by that very feeling of emptiness--but the most important thing gets ignored because of this "empty"feeling --the real importance of the person --the memories they leave --the lessons their departures taught --the mistakes to be taken note of never to be repeated --too often the very feeling of missing sumeone makes us forget the bigger picture --the lessons being offered to resurrect ur life --the memories to be cherished --so many factors seems to be ignored for the absence of someone we loved just endlessly .
"Never love sumone too much they say "--I would rather say "Never forget sumeone u loved too much "
Yes i do miss lot of people ---old pictures make me realise how much i miss --and its hell a lot --seen my fair share of breakups ,misunderstandings and some sudden demises of few angelic people --I once cried endlessly on the feeling of missing someone --now after nearly 15 years of struggle to accept the fact that missing is inevitable and part of life .
** From the time i missed my school friend --then missing schoolmates -then to miss collegemates --then to miss my wonderful mom ---to losing the most efferevescent person of my life --i have kept missing non stop --so much so --there are no more tears left when the feeling of emptiness sets in --But all along probably have ignored the wonderful facts that came along before the abrupt end --Probably failing to appreciate the beauty of loving and being loved is what makes missing sumone all the more worse ,,tears are signs of acknowledgement of that exact feeling !!
I have never stopped missing hell a lot people in my life -my sisters stay so far away --my best friends stay so far away too -and some other people i wish was with me smile in photographs with frames and flowers around them --work ,responsibility ,social interactions all have made life lot less tougher --but old pictures ,old gifts ,old mails ,old chats ,,sumtimes old sms remind me what im missing --and im sure im not only one in this world to have that feeling --its better to have this pain than to live without anyone worth remembering to miss in life .
"Missing is part of journey that shows ur path towards your destiny --noone comes along the whole way --its just u and u only --The people whom u miss in life need to be appreciated rather than regretted for their absence ---Noone can change destiny --like that noone can erase a beautiful past --a past that made u smile happily so many times --a past that will always make u feel a proud man/lady for loving sumone truly and loved back equally and in some cases like mine more than that --future might be lonely path to travel --but with these wonderful memories it wont be a lost one --So if u miss sumone just b happy u have been lucky and hope for the best --appreciate those beautiful moments which made u feel very special .
"Missing someone is remembering someone really special --painful it maybe forgettable it will never be !!! "
" I know i will eventually get nothing out of this but that is not enuf reason to just forget my efforts in making this relationship happen in the first place "
---- That was way back in 2008 -the person was one unforgettable persons - her words still bring me goosebumps every single time i reminisce them -especially her respect for relationship despite living away from her family due to unfortunate circumstances --not for a single time till i knew this friend she uttered a word in disrespect of any one of them who left her in midway --I lived a totally different life till then i visualised a world which had only goodness and no place for such mishaps in life --for long i believed "Love will win over anything "--until i met couple of such characters in my life -Maybe it is true in the end sumtimes u have to accept "Inevitability is impossible to overcome ",,but the part up until that breaking point should not be forgotten in the haste of the moment .
Couple of days back i met a friend's elder brother --after formal enquiries i asked how is your wife and kid(he has a beautiful little daughter)--he replied --Well we have offficially applied for seperation --i was taken back --this was a person who fell madly with that girl and their relationship was more than 10 years before they married and within few yrs,,a few misunderstandings --couple of months of staying away they decided to part ways --while it is impossible for me to access the life of a married man --i was taken back by his words on her which bordered on high disrespectfulness--I had no business to talk more --but the thought of "What about the respect,,the memories ,,the smiles --the poignant moments in that relationship "--All ruined by couple of misunderstandings ?--R u kidding me --i told myself .
" I was brought up by a mother who taught me its inhuman to disrespect any relationship --she taught me always to remember the real meaning of a realationship --misunderstandings are inevitable in a long journey --but remember them as temporary stops along the way not the destination u were meant to travel with each other --I still remember her once saying
"Its impossible to know what the other person feels without being in their shoes --never be judgemental on the basis of a incident"
-- accepted with all my efforts i have struggled to implement that --but something i have always made a point to have is ---"never have hatred on anyone who i loved truly "--had my share of innumerous breakups --some by fates --some by misunderstandings --but all had a constant which could have avoided the eventuality --"ME"--maybe as years rolled by --i do understand more and more the importance of valuing a relationship-or a long standing friendship--How much pain --how much compromises --how much untold love --how much countless excited nights ---how many playful talks --how many mails --how many chats ---etc etc in making a relationship work ---yet it takes not even a second to decide it is not needed --fast paced world alright --we keep the priorities on the wrong things and forget the right ones that need our attention .
"Why dont u just leave me,,there are million people in this world if u forgot "i remember barking at a friend some years back --- She replied " Sure ,show me sumone as flawed as u ,,who talks as silly as u --who is as short tempered as u are --and more than that find me sumone who made me compromise so much to have a friendship "--I lost her and so many friends --as a 30 plus guy now i do realise how stupid i was then --Never underestimate a relationship ---nothing comes for free in this world --but happiness does --if u value the importance of every person who loved u truly --Despite anything that happens in the end always remember it is just not a good enough reason to say the realationship or friendship was meaningless --because "true love and respect will always make u a better person --breakups after all symbolises a feeling a nothingness --thats all !!
I have many times written my blogs in dedication of sumone special --this blog is a tribute to three people --my unique soulmate --my once close friend for 25 years --and my marvellous "writer friend "--i have lost them unfortunately now but again that is just not a good enuf reason to forget the magical moments i have had---the best way to pay tribute to any relationship is to be thankful that it happened ,,not regret it for moment --Breakups symbolises a feeling a nothingness --nothing more -Give a chance for people to remember u for the right reasons ---So even if u r lonely u will be never lost -now that came out perfectly from my hand as i wished --lolz --Cheers :):):)!!!
**** This blog is in no way a advertisment --I just wanted to bring to light the sincerity and struggles of a 92 year old elderly woman who takes care of orphanage home for young and old people --Special thanks to " Smt. Thuraimuga Lakshmi Ammal "whom i happened to meet on New year in her orphanage home on Jan 1 ,2013****
I have never felt as light as i did on 31st Dec 2012 and never have i felt so happy as i did on this New Year Day--We a small group of friends (Deepa Rajendran ,Priya Raju,Subhasaravan and me )all decided to have few more friends albeit a lot younger group as invites to our New Year Bash --The place we decided to go was a orphanage home "UTHAVUM ULLAM" in West Tambaram ,Chennai--We got ourselves lost few times before eventually getting to the place by noon --The moment we entered we all entered with pin drop silence --we thought no one was there --but suddenly to our surprise the moment we entered there was sound of "Happy New Year "shouts for so many kids,,nearly 100 of them --(some shouting "Happy Birthday "lolz),,it was pleasant surprise ---and soon we happened to see the owner of the home "Lakshmi Ammal "--she was so concerned about safety of kids -she had a stick in hand was so strict in taking care of them as her own kids --We had bought some cakes and chocolates on seeing which madam got angry
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| Lakshmi Ammal |
"WHY DONT U BRING BREAD ,JAM AND MILK ,SOME BANGLES , HAIR CLIPS ,--IT WOULD HELP THESE KIDS SHE SAID WITH A BIT OF ANGRY DISAPPOINTED TONE --She had a valid point --chocolates and cream cakes may affect some kids --which may lead to them having more medical expense (this was informed by her later )--maybe there were lot of things we forget in moment of tryin to do what we like -- Its important to interact with them and get to know what they wanted and what maybe of more use to them .There was something about the talk of elderly woman --it was like teaching from experience of a long life--she explained some important lessons if you decide to goto orphange homes --and we noticed some other things in that properly arranged orphange home
** Before u go to orphanage home ---discuss with them what is essentially needed
** U can deposit even Rs 100 /month in any girl or boy u wish to help by coordinating with orphanage which in future will help them in studies as they grow
** If u decide to go once --make sure it isnt the last time u visit there because it will be a shame to make those souls as a source for ur happiness for a day ---they need ur money bit --they need ur presence bit --but more than that its important u dont make them feel as orphans by never visiting them again ..
** Watch them carefully how they say their prayers before having food --how innocently they share their happiness to us strangers --how they clean the place after having the food --how they say "Thanks"to sum help u do every single time --the place where we were there was not even a fan for 100 kids sitting under a shed --yet they were seated in a proper manner not complaining one bit for the entire time we were there -"Patience"--a important lesson that we often forget at crucial moments
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| Luvely Aishwarya |
** Every one would have one talent or other --and each time they would not hesitate to show that to u --some might be ready to dance --some ready to sing --some doing mimicry--There was this one special girl called "Aishwarya" who was so sparkling in the whole group of innocent kids --danced superbly --smiled innocently --and took our hearts in a minute --the feeling of innocent happiness she gave mesmerised us to endless satisfaction that the year began in peaceful and happy manner that we rarely had encountered ,,me personally it has been almost a decade i felt this light .
** Lakshmi Ammal is 92 years old --her heart still as fresh as morning daisy ,,her wants are all for the kids to be better --for the old age people to have a peaceful life --it was all the more remarkable the lady was so dedicated despite the failings of her age --her eyes showed that the fight for goodness of people under her care has never dimmed one little bit ---no electricity --not enuf food --a broken side wall ---and more and more kids coming for care --nothing seemed to make her think even one bit negative about she being in the final twilight of her life --it was sterling stuff --inspiring that age is never a barrier --All these are sincere efforts --and if u wish to contribute in any way u want i have given below the details regarding the Home --to my heart it was done with utmost sincerity and selfless care .So if u decide to do sumthing plz go ahead without hesitation .
It was a wonderful day --one that will stay with me for years -that innocent smiles --the countless handshakes--the seemingly endless new year wishes --the innocent happy birthday wishes --those sparkling eyes --they shared their happiness -the most costliest gift anyone can give u ---to say i accepted that is a gross understatement --I saw my pals and there was same happiness in their eyes ---there is happiness spread in the world --have to find it to feel it !!!
" What's in store who knows but lets be game on for the best new year yet in our lives"
" How many things have happened i "Wonder"
Endless points to "Ponder" !!
Its time to have a heart that is happy to "Give"
Mistakes to "Forgive" !!
Its time to smile more often than "Not"
Tears a forgotten "Lot" !!
Its time to play the name of a game called "Happiness"
To overcome a opponent called "Sadness"
Its time to forget what happened because past is "History"
Future -a place of happy "Mystery"
Its time to wish for optimistic Mornings
To never end in pessimistic Evenings"
Three near missed accidents--Countless heartbreaks --lonely nights -scary truths -terrible fears intermitted by some sizzling happy moments -sterling motivations -blossoming love - heart warming friendship --and few new beautiful little angels --2012 has had everything --to judge it as good or bad is the last thing i wanna do--All i hope is for wonderful 2013
Keep hoping --Start believing - 2013 maybe the best year we have had --A big Cheers and a even big thumbs up --Welcome 2013 !!!!!
"Why is our India called as Mother India"???--I remember asking this to my teacher at a very young age --and ever since i have remembered the reply --
"For Indians, their motherland represents more than a
piece of land. They see India with the love, respect and awe of a real mother.
In many ways, their sentiments are not ill-founded."
I think u must have seen the picture of Mother India in your younger days --I have always had goosebumps while i was being taught of this or even now while i hear about my country i have felt the pride every single time .But when I saw the picture of the brave girl who was disintegrated by barbaric men I felt hell a lot of sadness in my heart,then the news of more women tortured in various part of India felt terrible by every passing minute.
The truth is if we all consider our country as our mother --then we are all her sons and daughters ---On seeing the endless news of girls from infants to teens tortured --abused and in some cases murdered it leaves a bad feeling that things are going from bad to worse ,
" As another wonderful innocent life is cruelly nipped at bud ---a life so cruelly ended at 23 --in the early hours of today --Mother India keeps losing its daughters --- To say everything will be alright in few days is like cheating ourselves --because unless there is sumthing done to stop such actions --unless we believe that we have a active role in trying to stop this sort of incidents --unless there is stronger law to make such hearltess men think twice --things wont change --tommorow it might be someone from people u know,i know --we need not be superman all we need is to be true to our heart and believe we have a role in reforming this situation .
" When the girl passed away another daughter of Mother India has been disintegrated --another flower nipped in bud --it feels like a book having cruelly its pages torn before unravelling its beauty to the world -- I dont know why but i got the feeling "My Mother India is weeping helplessly "daughter after daughter --loss after loss --yet nothing has been done and probably nothing will be done - Is it not our duty to make this place --this wonderful country a safer place for women of this generation and future generations?
To that wonderful sister of mines who passed away today ;
Rest In Peace Sister --- Today this whole Nation mourns ur wonderful journey of yours cut short by cruel human beings --Your bravery will be talked for yrs ---Your death has awaken so many of us --This is blackest day i have known in my life for sumone i never knew --i feel my responsibility increased --for the first time i had tears for sumone i never knew ---Your life will not be forgotten --Maybe today this country is not secured for women --its like they r ready prey for remorseless men--but there is no denying the fact that time will change this fact --maybe just maybe your life will be the one that revolutionised a sagging country which has slowly watched helplessly at atrocious crimes --maybe its time this country awoke to this increasing number of heartless activities --You are safe at where you are now -- there is noone to torture you--there is noone to helplessly question you even after you were torn to pieces(she had given statements twice to magistrate --TWICE despite her condition)--For all your suffering and heartache --your soul deserves to rest in peace --even if u have lived there is no gurantee you might have seen anything different in this endless patient country of mines --it sucks to say so but that is the truth .
All i wish is such incidents never to occur --I wish the future generations is not shown our "Mother India "--and explained as the country which was insecured for women --as a proud Indian --As a son of this wonderful nation --i wish never to be there to see or hear the same one day --it appears though the day is fast approaching :( --Maybe its time my country awoke --because if at all there was a need to stand up against dangerous crimes it is right now ---after all if a girl cant go out fearlessly in our country what's the use in priding ourselves that we got freedom when women are confined helplessly to cruel activities.I have no words to describe the pain my heart feels now .I hope things change and i feel my hope is seen as a must to save this country's pride
"RIP Brave girl --Everyone dies --not everyone lives --ur life will never be forgotten "
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பெண்இனமே மன்னித்து விடு -இதுபோல் அட்டுà®´ியங்கள் à®®ுடிவு பெà®°ுà®®் காலம் வெகு தொலைவில் இல்லை !!!!
"A Woman is the epitome of every emotion u have seen and yet to see
Right from the beginning she learns to hide her pain
Hides her secrets --buries her wishes --confides her joy in silence
Be it as a caring mother ,a loving wife ,a naughty sister ,a adorable daughter,a supportive frd
She Forgets her requisites and adapts to social needs
She Suffers lot why give her more !!!
Show me a man who never had a woman in his life for his beginning was
Always from a woman --To hurt any woman is like disgracing your Mother
If you are prepared to do something --the least you can do is respect them !!
http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-12-18/india/35889539_1_delhi-gang-private-bus-bus-driver
It has to be one of the blackest days in the history of our Nation ---When Men became animals ---when a innocent girl was torn by heartless men who showed by their barbarious activities that they are not fit enuf to be even called as human beings --Could not read the story more than once --For once i felt ashamed being in the same gender as these heartless people were from --To injure a unarmed girl so badly --to sexually assault her like animals --what sort of human being would do that --Disgraceful and disgusting act that questions the very existence of humanity in this world -Even worse had followed the incident -One hour - the girl lying in the road with noone to take notice is the most pathetic stage we are moving into --We are so concerned about the good of our own self --we are slowly forgetting the importance of a life --the care we need to show to our fellow being who is suffering .
It feels so hard to watch the convicts moving around without being punished immediately -- for the heart wishes for capital punishment immediately as justice --but we live in a place where a terrorist who killed so many lives moved around courts and lived for more than 4 years despite having every evidence of his inhuman crime --so it is hard to expect any drastic action for any crime --the best thing we can do is hope we never live to hear something so sad like this in our lives --but that is not a good enuf reason to stand still and watch --yes we are not shakthimans or superheroes but we can do our basics right -Some things we can do like
**** We can teach our kids how to respect a woman -
**** Try to understand and implement the fact that the role of woman is equally important as a male in this society
**** Make sure Rapists have capital punishment immediately if proved guilty
**** Most importantly allow woman to choose their path and lives if possible
(I still live in a society where a girl choosing a job or guy seems as the worst disgrace imaginable to a family)
I write this with utter humiliation and heartfelt sadness
"If you ought to torture a fellow human being without any remorse
Then you are not fit enough to be called a human being
Neither are you just enough to live in this world --But I
Live in a country which just has too much patience even for the worst offenders
Wake up for once country these are our fellow human beings disintegrated!!!
I do sincerly hope that the guilty are punished in such a way this sort of crime never happens --The question again is Will We See A Bold Step Being Taken ?
Feel Like Hanging my head as would thousands of us in Shame !!!My Sincere wishes to that innocent girl to recover from all this pain soon,May God help her in recovering soon and have a happy life ahead .
**** It felt really disheartening from a individual point of view to see this advertisement with regard to sad story in a Leading English Newspaper ---Im neither a critic nor a supporter of a particular political party--im just one among million men --Just a Common man****
My sincere questions regarding this advertisment in the front page of Leading English newspaper on 16.12.2012
* Was there any absolute need to advertise such a sensitive incident where the trauma of the family can never be understood by outsiders ---Is it not important to leave them their space after all that had transpired ?
* Is this any sort of awareness that was being created?If So what sort of awareness was the daily trying to create (It seemed the way they had specifed about all mobile users accessibility it does seem it was nowhere near anything as such )
* The purpose of this advertisement doesnt seem to comply doing anything to the incident that occured --Why not a article briefing about how ppl could handle this situation ?
* Why was not any scathing attack on the radio station ppl whose careless fun ended a innocent life( it was revealed that the person was not at all exposed to any such media in her whole life )-Is it wrong to pinpoint what could have been better ?
* Is there no value for life ? Does everything need to be in business mind?Is this the maximum media can show concern to departed soul in a sensitive incident ?
* If it was done on a sincere note why could not it be announced as it was of free of cost message,or something like that --all this conveys is only a silly marketing purpose that at any cost could have been avoided .
On A Similar note --
* IN CONNECTICUT THERE HAS BEEN TERRIBLE INCIDENT WHERE A MAD GUNMAN HAS SHOT SO MANY CHILDREN AND ADULTS IN AN ABSOLUTE BARBARIC INCIDENT -
----What is the guarantee that the icident would not be similarly advertised- adveritsing for application for people to download and "watch exclusive videos of people grieving in that incident too???"--Seriously are we wantedly ignorant that much to download a application to participate in the grievings of our fellow being which seems absurd for all that we are worth for - Hell No --"We wish to be part of grievances from our soul and heart -Period !!!
This is not a global sporting incident neither a heroic battle won that needs a download application to be viewed over and over again --And despite every difference we have for each other one thing that unites us -is our "Solidity Of Mankind-Our Love for Humanity is same" --even one minute of silence in our hearts is appreciable enough --because that is done in the truest way possible --our sincere wishes are all the grieved family needs --I just remember the "Twin Tower "incident --the "Mumbai Terror "incident --we all offered our prayers in our little ways --THAT IS THE BEST WE COULD GIVE TO SOULS WE NEVER KNEW --AND CERTAINLY NEVER TO DOWNLOAD A APPLICATION TO PARTICIPATE IN A GRIEVANCE .
I still feel so bad seeing that --maybe there should be restriction for marketing --not everything needs marketing --and cerainly not everything needs needless advertisment -and that too on the front page --All i hope is better sense prevails in sensitive iissues .
(Everything said has been said entirely on my humble perspective -not meant to hurt anyone if so it is regretted )
"Signs are the best indication of where u r headed ,,,,,,,"
The first signs of a worried father --is when he asks us "Can you?"--for the first time instead of his usual "You Can"!!!
The first signs of a best friend --- is when among hundred friends he/she listens to your silence
The first signs of true love --- is when someone is so inquisite and excited abt wanting to see your childhood pictures
The first signs of maturity --- is when you accept ur first loss -- acknowledged by a smile masking flowing tears.
The first signs of loneliness --- is when you feel your silence as your best companion
The first signs of soulmate --- is when someone gives u support no matter what --gives u hope against hope --in my case --unseen too but magical nevertheless
The first signs of satisfaction --- is when your mother touches your head and just smiles in acknowledgement of something she wished that was accomplished by you.
The first signs of friends for life --is when u find sumone trustworthy enough to say intimate truths and patient enough to accept our silly jokes !!!
The First Signs of motivation -- is when u decide to prove people who keep saying "You cant" --again and again ---wrong.
The First Signs of Frustration --- is when you fight with people you love most not realising it is not the right thing to do
The First Sign of Sucess --- is when repeated failures dont scare you anymore
The First signs of Desperation --- is when you start listening to meaningless advices from strangers
The First Signs of Happiness --- is when tears roll out uncalled upon
The First Signs of Regret --- is when u accept u were wrong on sumthing u did hoping it was right .
Human life is a mixture of everything --as they say a box of chocolates--but you definitely know where you are heading if you folllow the signs of nature --there is nothing in this world as mysterical as life itself!!!
***** "Tears try to rush out --heart pleads for the same -the mind remembers one great incident by one great soul" *****
There are days in ur life when u wish the day never dawned or u had skipped that day ---Some days u feel life is the most cruel villain in this world --Speechless by couple of rude incidents --i gazed up the stars standing motionless -"I have had days when i have had pains as do millions of us ---but there are ridiculous days like these when it feels as if the pains has escalated beyond the skies --the exact time u wanna say "Gosh it is unbearable pain "-How do i handle this --My first tear tried to escape from my eyes --I have no shoulder to cry --no soulmate to behold me --i felt as though im carryin another me ---it felt that heavy ---and as i was about to burst out loud i remembered one incident --one magical incident which made me think there is no unbearable pain in this world
The Incident which showed what it means to never give up ---
One cold November morning ,2002--a wonderful soul suffering from endless physical pains --pains which no painkiller could kill --the tears of that excess pain --countless injections piercing that tender body --drips runnings all along --with no energy in the body --voice breaking up --with a young innocent son who was just 20 then knowing nothing about this cruel world --who knew nothing about the concealed pain of that wonderful soul - a son who innocently believed soon that great lady will walk him to his house hugging him --that great lady knowing it was her last few days even with that real unbearable pain which the doctors later confirmed as really no painkiller could kill --woke up a many nights to help that son sleep peacefully by sayin "Im fine"every hour to a slightly scared son --a great lady who concealed that unbearable pain cruelly inflicted by fate to ask that son her usual questions "Had Food Son","Have a blanket and sleep "--that son known to have a allergy to hospitals was comforted by that great mother despite her approaching inevitable cruel end and unbearable pain -- she made a promise to her son despite everything that fate offered to her "Listen --I know u r scared --Just remember this mom will do everything she could do to walk with u back to our house -I Promise --saying she held his hand and said "Sleep I Will watch u till u sleep "--The son woke up in the morning her mom watching him one whole night with many painkillers failing to do the job --eyes swollen of tears of pain--Her tired body was aching to bits but not for one minute she showed that pain --nothing stopped her from showing her endless love --nothing stopped her willpower to withstand a whole night of pain to see her son sleep in comfort .
She fell unconsious the next day and never woke up to see the world -she never walked back with her son to their house -fate had won -death hung its head in shame for claiming such a wonderful soul so early --but the son never felt the real magnamity of her pain till she was gone --the truth was later revealed how much she had concealed those unbearable pain with sheer willpower and a neversaydie attitude to life ,For her
"There was always a dawn that no pain will prevent her from seeing "
I want this night to end in a hurry --this moment to be erased in a jiffy --the truth i heard to be forgotten as if i never heard ---painful alright --but to categorise that "Unbearable"--felt impossible -once i remembered that great soul's act of courage --my second tear went back never to come back again ---Maybe her point was not only to show her willpower it might have been to instill belief in her son that
"There is a dawn to be seen despite any pain "
With Your Evergreen Memories Mom --This life of mines will roll on despite anything
Period !!!!
